Ray J is adamant he didn't spill on his sex life with Kim Kardashian, after Life with Kim Kardashian, After She Says He's a 'Pathological Liar'. Ray Says He Doesn't Regret The Sex Tape With Kim Kardashian. In a new interview with Daily Mail, Ray J spoke about the sex tape and said. This is the moment Ray J talks about his then girlfriend's Kim Kardashian vagina in graphic detail. The singer can be heard talking to someone.